Top 5 Considerations To Think About Prior To Filing For Divorce (Which Can Potentially Make The Process Of Divorce Quicker)

May 27, 2025

Filing for divorce is a significant decision that can potentially be emotionally and financially overwhelming. However, preparing ahead of time can make the process a lot smoother and help finalize it more quickly. If you’re considering divorce, here are five topics to think about before filing, which can potentially expedite the process and make it go smoother.

  • ‍UNDERSTAND YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION PRIOR TO FILING FOR DIVORCE

Divorce involves dividing qualifying assets and liabilities, so having a clear picture of your finances is essential. Gather all relevant documents, including:

  1. Bank statements,
  2. Tax returns,
  3. Mortgage and loan documents,
  4. Retirement accounts and investments, and/or
  5. Monthly expenses and debts, etc

Having these records readily available (prior to retaining an attorney and differently prior to filing for divorce) can help to potentially prevent delays during those initial first few months after filing for divorce (and even during mediation negotiations and other court proceedings that sometimes occur when the parties can’t agree to issues such as child custody or support). Additionally, knowing your financial standing helps you plan for post-divorce financial independence.

  • ‍EXPLORE MEDIATION OR AN AMICABLE RESOLUTION

A contested divorce can take months or even years to finalize (depending on the specific and unique facts of your case), leading to potentially significant stress and expenses. If possible, consider mediation or collaborative divorce to settle disputes amicably (especially if you and your spouse are able to agree upon significant important issues such as alimony, child custody, child support, distribution of assets, etc). Also, open communication with your spouse can reduce court involvement and lead to a quicker resolution.

  • ‍PLAN FOR CUSTODY AND CO-PARENTING (IF CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED)

If you have children, their well-being should be a top priority. Notably, Florida family court/judges will always consider “the best interest” of the children. Therefore, it is important that all considerations pertaining to children be centered around the "best interest" of the children. Before filing, discuss potential custody arrangements with your spouse and consider factors like:

  1. A parenting schedule that works for both parties,
  2. Child support expectations, and/or
  3. Schooling, health care, extracurricular activities

Having a well-thought-out co-parenting plan can help avoid prolonged custody battles, making the process more efficient and less emotionally taxing for everyone involved.

  • ‍ASSESS YOUR LIVING SITUATION

One of the first things you need to consider is where you will live post-divorce. Ask yourself:

  1. Will one spouse remain in the marital home (the marital dwelling)?
  2. Do you need temporary housing?
  3. Can you afford a new home or rent on a single income?

Deciding on your living arrangements early on can help prevent unnecessary delays and conflicts during divorce proceedings.

  • ‍UNDERSTAND LEGAL REQUIREMENTS AND PROCEDURES

Discuss the specifics with your legal counsel to help you better prepare for divorce proceedings. The State of Florida, has specific laws regarding divorce, including residency requirements, mandatory legal standards like “best interest of the child”, and legal procedures. Consulting with a Florida licensed attorney may help you to understand:

  • the required paperwork and deadlines,
  • potential legal fees, and/or
  • whether you meet the residency criteria for filing the State of Florida

Being informed about the legal process can help you avoid common pitfalls and ensure a smoother and faster divorce.

 

FINALTHOUGHTS

Divorce can be a challenging process, but proper preparation can make it more manageable and efficient. By understanding your finances, seeking amicable solutions, planning for custody arrangements, securing your living situation, and staying informed about legal procedures, you can navigate the process with less stress and potentially finalize your divorce more quickly.

If you’re considering divorce and need guidance, consulting with a professional licensed attorney can provide clarity and help you make informed decisions. Preparation is key to ensuring a smoother transition into the next chapter of your life.

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CONTACT THE EXPERIENCED MARITAL & FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS AT THE JOSEPH FIRM, P.A. 

If you’re considering filing for divorce in the State of Florida, you can contact The Joseph Firm, P.A. Attorney, Marck K. Joseph, Esq., BCS is a Board Certified Marital and Family Law expert and the owner of The Joseph Firm, P.A. With almost fifteen (15) years of experience in Martial & Family Law, he is uniquely qualified in helping in most types of family cases, including divorce matters.

If you are involved in a family law matter in Florida, consulting with an experienced family law attorney can help you navigate the legal process while advocating for the best interests of your child. Our law firm fully understands the challenges of navigating marital and family law issues and we’re always ready to provide the highest-quality legal representation. Whether your case settles outside the courtroom or goes to trial (or final hearing), our attorneys go the extra mile for every client.

Our firm offers free case evaluations to determine whether the firm can assist you with your case, and if we can, a case consultation meeting will be scheduled. The experienced divorce lawyers at Joseph Firm, P.A. are ready to hear your story. We provide smart, aggressive family law representation to clients. To learn more, call (305) 501-0992.

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